Studies suggest that 10 percent of men who claim to be straight indulge in same-sex activities, which can range from jerking off together to getting pounded by each other like it’s the end of times. If that was the gay agenda all along, some of us didn’t get the memo. But gay men shouldn’t be the ones to comment on how these straight men are ruining their wives’ lives, especially because we never stop fetishising straight film actors and athletes and going out of our way to elaborate how they can destroy our holes. That’s important since there’s a level of gatekeeping within queer spaces, where you have to be so and so and identify as such and such to find yourself being accepted in the bigger community. So what were those encounters?įarhad also believes that other gay men should back off from defining what sexuality bracket these men fall under. Also, because he very much claims he’s straight to this day. I know for a fact that he’s straight now because when we interact, we don’t delve upon those days of mutual gratification. However, today, my childhood friend is married and has a wife and kid of his own, and he even had a great pre-Covid wedding party. While it was mostly me on the giving end of it, I thought of it as early target practice, since today I am as gay as Easter Sunday. A year later, the jerk-off sessions turned into handjobs, making out, and blowjobs.
We obviously didn’t think too much about it. So that’s what we did for almost two years. His mom would be out for work and his younger siblings would still be at school. There, at the age of 14, we would freefall into the murky backalleys of early 2000s internet pornography - the sorts that even after you shut the browser, a pop-up of a woman moaning kept returning on the desktop.īefore we got shunned from the local cyber cafes, we would take our half-hour surfing period to look at images of pink penises and vaginas and excitedly head to my friend’s place after to masturbate together. Most women aren't aware of their husband's cheating. You need to be more aware of the person you're in bed with, ladies. You might just be sleeping with the enemy.One of my earliest experiences was chilling with my childhood buddy, playing video games, banging hot wheels into each other, and borrowing 10 rupees from our parents to go surfing at a cyber cafe. Seventeen percent of divorces are caused by infidelity. It's a man that you love with all your heart lying and betraying you. But remember: we don't know you or have feelings for you. To us, it's just sex to you, it's a lot more. Most people want to put the blame on the mistress and not the person doing the cheating. But if he did, I wouldn't hate the person he was with I would hate my partner. I was in a serious relationship for many years and it would have killed me to know that he cheated. The married men I've been with have been school teachers, police officers, Wall Street businessmen and men who cheat while their wives are pregnant. I've even slept with a man the day before he got married.Īs I enter my 30s, I wonder where life will take me. I feel bad they live a life where they truly think they're in a happy marriage. They replied, "Yes." They told me they were straight, but enjoyed getting it on with men because their wives didn't know how or were just plain boring in bed.ĭo I feel bad for all the wives? Yes, I do. I asked all of them if they were married. Later that night when I was done, most of the guys that came over wrote me asking how long I was in town for and if they could swing by again before I left. As they started to come into my room, I noticed that each of them had a wedding ring on. After he left, I had a few other guys over. I acted like nothing had happened but I was a little shocked.
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Pick out a movie for us to watch tonight. I told her I was picking up food for her and the kids," he said with a straight face and picked up. "Hey, babe, sorry it's taking so long. I closed the door and walked over to him. Then, right when we were going for it, his phone started to ring. He walked in and moved to the foot of the bed but didn't sit.